You will not hear me bragging too much about my day on the links. I played poorly, but the weather was off and on showers all morning. My Taxi, chauffeur, picked me up at 7 AM to drive me 40 miles to Rangsit, Thailand, north of the city of Bangkok. It is the course that Ponsak's family still has a house on. The course is all Bermuda grass and was in very good shape. The greens were very undulated and I putted poorly. There was a heavy dew that was on the greens and then the greens began to puddle with the off and on showers. My caddie, Gay, kept me dry by holding an umbrella over me throughout the rainstorms. I had to speak Thai to her the entire round as she knew not a word of English herself. I was quite impressive according to the other caddie back at the clubhouse who shared that with me after I showered. The clubhouse has a great dinning area and the locker rooms are very nice.
The locker rooms were clean and the showers felt great after being soaked in the rain. It was a very nice feeling to take a warm shower. Hot showers do not exist.
Below: Gay was my caddie today and Roan was the tuna fish sandwich delivery person. One tuna sandwich ordered before my round began arrived on hole five. That was my breakfast and it was a good one.
Below: Other years I have gotten closer to the Monitor Lizard that lives on my golf courses and rivers, ponds and lakes in Thailand. The can grow to over 10 feet long. "Where's Monitor"? He was in the middle of the fairway but ran (They can run 30 MPH) before I have a good picture.
Below: FYI on the Monitor Lizard, The owner of the golf course emailed me this picture when I asked about the Monitor Lizards on the course. They eat birds, cats, dogs, and everything it can get it's mouth around. I had a golf club in my hand when I started to run after the lizard above.
Water Monitor
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Below: The ominous clouds led to showers that continued for the entire back nine. Pictures of the golf course follows.
I am spending the rest of my day reading. The rain is coming down and walking the streets of Bangkok are no fun in the rain. The sewers overflow and the streets have 2-3 feet of water. It is filthy and smelly when you are out in the heavy rain. When the rain stops, the heat increases along with the dewpoint and humidity. There is no relief.
On the way home from golfing at Rangsit, Ponsak's hometown, I stopped to drop off a sympathy card for his wife Myuree and here 3 daughters. It was a short 15 minute visit and conversation. We talked about why I was in Bangkok and I went on to ask how her girls were taking the loss of Ponsak. She said that the youngest, Bo, was taking it the worst and not sleeping. I really feel that Myuree was taking it the worst. When I told her how much I loved and missed Ponsak she broke down crying. She was at work and I should have said nothing but I did and could not take it back. We both cried and I wanted to hug her so badly, but that rite belonged to her husband. I knew that, and I totally respected that aspect of her culture, one that she deeply believes in continuing. I left my hotel phone number and email but I doubt we will be in contact. It is still too soon. I have been thinking all day about Ponsak. I am certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible
imprint in our memories. I find comfort in knowing that my life has been enriched by having shared their love. I believe it is an everlasting love! My emotions today proved this point.
How about a Thai fact or two?
If you have to go to the bathroom (#1), it is referred to as “shooting a rabbit” for a man and “picking a flower” for a woman. If it’s more than that (#2), it’s “shooting a tiger” and “picking avery beautiful flower”, respectively.There are 4,354 7-Eleven stores in Bangkok. New York City has 200. The owner is from Thailand.
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